Wednesday, October 10, 2012

There are four styles of attachment. I would very much love to say I have a secure attachment style, but I would be lying. I have a preoccupied attachment style. Low on avoidance, and high on anxiety. I really kind of blame my biological processes, my genetic tendencies, and my childhood. Because intimate adult relationships are influenced and shaped by earlier parent-child attachment. Attachment style can change, but not always for the better. And I'm afraid I might soon be re-categorised into the fearful-avoidant.

It's scary how certain experiences can shape you into something you never thought you would morph into.

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